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Dos and Donts for Men on Dating Sites
Men, learn how to behave on dating and personals sites. Being a man and also being the owner of a dating site myself I have to tell all my fellow men that you are chasing all the women away. Most of you anyway. Women are keen on how we behave because most of us all behave the same way on dating sites. Here is a list of DO's and DON'TS to help keep the women at these sites and to help you get some responses. 1) DON'T copy and paste 25 exactly same emails and send them off. Women see right through this and it get's you no-where. Ever wonder why you don't get responses? That's the first reason. DO send individual emails and put some thought into contacting women on these dating sites. REMEMBER: women get 100 emails a day from all sorts of guys. If your email has no heart then you just go over-looked. 2) DO spell check your email, women are so turned off by a guy that cannot spell it shows you are either stupid or just lazy. The same thing goes for grammar. Take some time to get it right guys and you will get a response. 3) DON'T choose a nickname that has a sexual innuendo (unless you are on an adult dating site). Remember, women usually like men with some class and Roger_69sU shows that you just want a one night stand. Try something more clever. 4) DON'T contact single women if you are married. It is a waste of their time and is an insult. DO read their profile and see if they are interested in married men. 5) DON'T lie. DON'T lie. DON'T lie. Enough said. 6) DO not send women pictures of your "privates". They will ask if they want to see that. DO send them a nice picture that shows your sense of humor or style. 7) DON'T just send an email after you see their picture. DO read their profile first. 8) DON'T harass women that are not interested. This ruins the site for everyone and could very well get you banned from the dating site forever. Many sites now have reporting features for this very reason. DO treat all others on the site as though you were talking in person to them. You would harass them to their face would you? This is just a small list of some of the incredibly stupid things guys are doing on Internet dating and singles sites. Now of course there are some great guys out there that are honestly looking for a nice date or relationship so any women reading this, just bear with us, we men are slowing catching up and figuring it out. Hope this article helps. Leif Croonquist is 34 years old and lives in Portland, Oregon. He is the owner and creator of http://www.cupidsblackbook.com. He invites you to join if you behave ;)
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Activities to Help You Meet Mr. or Mrs. Right 01/06/09
by Sadie Peterson
At some time or another, all of us find ourselves in a bit of a dating rut. Follow these steps to easily expand your social circle. About the Author
Sadie Peterson has helped hundreds of people meet new
1.Do the things you love – Too many of us don’t go out and do things because we don’t like doing them alone. But I make it a point to go kayaking regularly, renting a kayak from a local shop. Why? Because this will put you in contact with other people who share your interests. And, of course, you’ll be talking to these people, as instructed in Step 1. Also, no matter what your hobby, your local shop will probably have a bulletin board listing outings and activities of interest, giving you more ideas for meeting new people. Ask the counter clerk whether he knows of anyone who meets for your specific hobby. I’ve found several informal social kayaking groups this way.
2.Start something – This isn’t for everyone, but if you’re a great organizer, find a project. Do you notice that your new apartment complex or neighborhood never has any get-togethers? Why not plan one yourself, and hand out flyers? Or maybe you love scrapbooking, but can’t seem to find anyone else to share your interests. Start a scrapbooking get-together once a week! Try www.meettheneighbors.org to help you get started.
3.Take a class – No matter what the subject, taking a class at the local junior college or education center will help you meet people. Pick something fun, like a cooking class, or something that’ll really boost your earnings, like a real estate investing class.
4.Say Yes – Without even realizing it, you’re probably turning down opportunities to meet new people every day. So, the next time your co-worker mentions that networking meeting she goes to every Wednesday, or your boss suggests a happy hour after work, say Yes. The more people you’re exposed to, the more likely you are to meet people who share your interests.
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